Monday, October 18, 2010
Danila Qisyani on TNP!
Hi everyone! I've been neglecting my blog ever since I'm busy with my two kids. My second daughter, Danila Qistyna is learning to crawl, now at 6mths. Her first n second tooth appear a day after another at 5 mths too! At the same time, she got an infection on her left shoulder. There's a bump which I thought it was a mosquito bite, which then grew bigger, and look yellowish at the top because there's pus. And red at the base. Been going KKH every two days to have her dressing changed. Now that its healing.. and the tissues are joint, I could finally treat it myself. Imagine going hospital in a taxi to n fro.. Some might ask why don't I use the train or the bus. Well, Qisty of course an active baby, who can't sit still for more then 10mins, let alone sitting it the bus for 45mins. She will shout once she's angry..
For those who don't know, Qisya appeared in The New Paper on 17th Oct, pg 30. I once tell myself, that one day, I wished that my kids would appear in the new paper.. In the good things of course..and she did.. I send her picture via email, and it was published! I didn't remember to check the news paper until I saw the headline about the Ipoh woman who turned muscular after an intensive bodybuilding programme.. Was flipping through when I saw Qisya's photo! I couldn't express in words the moment I saw her picture! I was at a clinic, sending Qistyna to see the doctor for her bad cough at that point of time. Hubby came, I pass him the newspaper and told him to look for page 30. As a man and a daddy, of course his expression of happiness weren't as much as I am..! I feel like going around Tampines St 81, holding that page and shout,
"Here's my baby!!" I went to MCP supermarket to look for the cashier who loves buying sweet for Qisya, and I showed her.. With the long queue, I managed to show her, and she, too was amazed! " Ni kan, ha de ni er!" sorry if the spelling is wrong) She say while showing it to one of her colleague, ignoring the long queue..hehe!
And about me, I'm still looking for a job. I won't give up.. but there's no one to look after the kids, and even if there's childcare centres, I still need someone to look after them while I start to work first, so as to save money for the first payment...
Whats life without a problem? And my dream is still to be a motivator...
Motivating the younger generations and those in the prisons.....
Got to go now,
Qisya just shout "Mama, come, Qistyna nak susu!"
5:50 AM
Saturday, July 10, 2010
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I still think of the white tigers that I saw at Singapore Zoo. I love animals, but I realised that the love is not to the extent of wanting to touch them or getting near them.
Marriage itself is so profound. There's no saying that all stories are the same. Marriage life
is wide and deep. I'm so so grateful for being blessed with two cute daughters.
For one is lovely that put smiles on my face everyday, and one who give me a chance of being a full time mother. I'm also blessed with a wonderful husband. Even though he's not good in words,
like sending sweet messages, full of surprises and gifts on no occasion, but he's actions is more then enough to prove how dedicated he is towards our marriage. He doesn't like shopping. He goes home straight after work, not wanting to slack anywhere. He meets his friends once a month. I don't force him to do any of those, but he automatically change and adapt himself to play his role of a father and a husband. I don't fancy the kind of luxurious life, because I believe that each life is given for a certain.
Rich people with chauffeurs are driven around, a pity they don't get to walk slowly and appreciate the serenity. Poor people are happy all the time. Some couples excel in careers but not blessed with children. Some arrogant people spend most of their time in hospital, dealing with sickness that are draining their money away, yet still snobbish. That's life.
I'm happy with what I'm given, I don't ask for more.
My dad is busy with his check ups. He has a lump on his liver, gallstone, and something round in between which is shown on the x-ray. His doctor suspects Lung Cancer. Dad is a heavy smoker. He was never sick before. After all the years of hard work, this illness finally gave him some leeway to rest more often. He works as a Supervisor cum Senior Tecnician with Keppel Engineering FMO, currently assigned to Republic Polytechnic. So if you are schooling and happened to see someone came to your class to fix things, it might be my dad. Hehe
Effa (MisqLovette) ask me how I shed weight. This is not a teaching, but sharing.
K, effa, first of all after birth jamu and massage like sengkak is most important. We are young, and we need to use this body for don't know how long. I exercise and jog for 2-3 times a week.
I apply cream too. I use Nivea Anti-Cellulite after bath in the morning, before sleeping or exercise routine or before jogging, I use Dior Svelte Cellulite Control Complex by Christian Dior.
At the same time, diet is important too. Its useless to do so, but you don't control your intake as well. You can try. If you don't have the time to go out, maybe during your kids nap time, spend 30-45mins to exercise at home. Anywhere will do. Try it! Good luck!!
1:13 AM
Monday, June 7, 2010
Motherhood
Hello readers! Its been a long time to me, since I last wrote in.
My mother started working, so I've been busy all day.
Routine has been the same, every single day. Wake up, bath Qisty, bath Qisya.
Vacuum, mop then start cooking. Free time, will watch cartoon with Qisya. But mostly,
she'll ask for her karaoke Yank by Wali Band. She only sings the last word.
Yaaannnk.........ku....yaaaaannnkkk.........mu.......
I brought Qisty to Adidah's clinic to circumcise (sunat) just now.She cried, Qisya coax her and say, "Tak! Nenek syg". Which means don't worry, the doctor loves her"
Hubby's resigning soon. Although he was promoted early, and chosen as the employee with best grooming ( he iron his uniform every night) , still it was hard. He's joining Ieco, a collaboration of Rolls Royce & SIA Engineering Company. Better prospect, just 4 days work a week means more time together. My appetite is getting worse! From 1 plate of rice a day, to 3-4 plate!!
Hubby's been very sweet lately. Qisya is tring to speak more then two syllabus. Qisty can see much clearer now. I got a video, will upload to youtube soon, will inform you guys. A video of Qisty. I thought she was mad, her face was red and her eyebrow looked funny. In fact she wasn't mad, she was pressing her poo! Stupid mum!
Check out my facebook for new pictures.
Izura As'
8:51 AM
Saturday, April 17, 2010
Achik (Spin)
Some of you might know
Achik (Spin) died in a car crash yesterday.
I was a big fan of him.
I cannot accept the fact that his gone
"Apakah ini suratan takdir...."
(insan ku sayang kini menghilang - Spin)
*sob*
Listening to his songs right now...
9:51 PM
Wednesday, April 7, 2010
Birth Of Danila Qistyna
Hello friends!
Some might have knew, I've given birth
to my precious 2nd baby girl.
On the 30/03/2010
Name Danila Qistyna
Through normal vaginal delivery, this time, without epidural.
Thank Allah!
Qisya was delighted upon seeing her sister.
She kisses, carries and even lick her sister.
Now, I have to plan ahead.
I want to work after my confinement but don't know
in which industry I'm interested in..
Friends, do give me tips..
Do visit my FB to view the photos of my newborn.
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3:59 AM
Sunday, February 28, 2010
Boring day
I realised that I didnt upload any full pic of me & my big tummy..Will upload soon..
Due date: 4rd April
It was a boring day for me. My mum went for a day tour to Melacca, leaving me and dad hungry
as soon as she left. I got no plans today. Hubby will be home late. He went to his mum's house to check out his plants and to put fertilizers.
I'm already 9months and coming 3 weeks of pregnancy. Which is 39 out of 40 weeks. Any day could be the day I will be in labour. I can't wait, I've packed my bag ready.
-Baby oil & cream
-Baby wrap
-Baby hat
-Mittens & booties
-1 shirt & pant
-Electric toothbrush & toothpaste etc...
I have trouble sleeping at night, will sleep by 3am thou. But wakes up at 6.30am. Will take a bath, buy beancurd for breakfast, do the washing and drying of clothes, clean the kitchen, prepare breakfast for my dear Qisyani. Stop at 10am, sleep back, and wakes up at 4pm. -,-"
What a day! And the backache is getting stronger. I can feel my pelvic bone and hip expanding, giving way for my baby.
My dear Qisyani is as eager as I am. She can't wait to see her lil sister. Recently, she always wanted me to carry her. She scream for me at late nights. She tried to put in her pacifier into my belly button, thinking thats where Qistyna's mouth is. Hilarious isn't she? Poor hubby, saving up alot for our 2nd child. The post natal massage, the new milk powder & bottles etc. And we need a new pram! The one that 2 infants can sit, front and back.
Last but not least, I just read eefa's blog, someone told her off for being good with me.
Why didnt the person ask me as well, as to why I befriended her after what she did? Its all in the past, and forgiving is the best thing every muslims do. So why rake up the past? And what is that person's motive?
Wanna rest now while reading my novel.
Take care lovely readers! Love ya!!
4:05 AM
Wednesday, February 24, 2010
Frustrated Husband, Loving Father
The Chinese couple moved in to the second floor few years back. Their house was the only apartment on that level. With extra partition outside for their son's tricycle, swing, their protective dog who bark at everyone it sees and their hanged clothes. It was a perfect home for a new parent who wanted to live happily with each other.
The couple used to have a maid when they had their first child, a boy. I used to see her on high chairs wiping the windows outside. But then, they didn't employ her for long. Soon, the woman gave birth to their second son just when their first son is around 3-4. The woman never talks to anyone. Even when I smile, I had to smile from ear to ear before she gave me her reluctant "can't be bothered" smile. The man can be friendly at times, he talks, he waved 'Hi". But always avoid long conversation. We know, young couples wants a world for themselves and some hate to be friendly to neighbours so as to avoid spilling any secrets.
Ever since their second child is born, the couple always had quarrels with each other. I always hear the woman shouting and screaming at her husband and their first son. Doors were slammed, cries were heard. I felt sorry for the man. He was like the mom and the dad. He took his son out for breakfast, to the MacDonald, to the playgroup centres and out to play. I never seen his wife took care of the kids before. Some women do not want to dirty their manicured nails. But the man still smiles even if he knew, that we heard their quarrels.
One night, my husband and I was spending some time together at the park below. Watching old couples active in Gate ball. Then we saw the wife, rushing down the stairs carrying her 2ND son, and a rocker..with their first son tagging behind. Then the man came down with a storage box full of his son's clothes and toys. I wondered if she was angry with her husband, wanting to go back to her maiden home. Since its their usual routine to quarrel, we ignore. Then the man called out to me, asking me to come up to his house. He waved at my husband, meaning 'hold on'. When I got up, he ask if I want to have the swing that belongs to his first son. Free stuff? I agreed. Since my daughter didn't have any swing, and playgrounds with swing are hard to come by nowadays. He helped me carry up to the 3rd level, all the way to my doorsteps. I thanked him and asked if he's moving out? He shook his head, smile and walk away.
Since then, I rarely see him again.
One afternoon, my mum asked me if the couple was moving out because she saw people coming to the couple's home with cameras, taking pictures. I wondered.. maybe they are divorcing? That's why they sold the house? Then we found out that those people were investigators!!!!
The man had tried to kill his wife!
Maybe he's depressed and upset with his wife's lazy but demanding behaviour?
Till now we didn't know. Now, all we saw is the man's clothes hang dry outside, with his dog and his first son.
Just now, I saw him taking his son out to school/playgroup. He smiled at me before entering his car. I smiled back with fear, I walk as quick as I could.
So why did he tried to kill his wife? Are they still together? Can their marriage be saved?
(This is a true story about my neighbour, not some composition or essays)
4:00 PM
Tuesday, February 9, 2010
Trend? Or Stupidity?
Guess some of you might have read the New Papers about Nadia Fazlini's sex video scandal.
Or better known as Shanaz in local malay drama, Anak Metropolitan.
I have seen the video.
http://www.megavideo.com/?d=K50678T5So what do you think?
For me, I personally think its stupid. We are all adult. Whether she's sober or not during the filming, she is responsible for her own safety. Its not like she has a body of a sexy porn star,
you know like those in Spankwire. Big breast, firm butt, great figure, irressistable horny face, pink ass.... But this??? Haiz.. What a disappointment for us, women.
Yeah, maybe that guy is her boyfriend what so ever. You easily trust them that your video is only for their eyes to look? Even if he didn't spread it, his friends could while browsing his handphone on the pretext of looking up for songs. You know, that since 2004, spreading of sex video is the "trend". Like Paris Hilton, Edison and our local girls. Some drunk, rape or willing party with their boyfriend. But you are responsible enough to keep your video well.
In Islam, its already forbidden to have sex with men that is not our husband. Many of us have done against it. True. But making a video, and millions of people get to see it? Might as well you portray your naked body to the whole world. Right?
Don't use the word drunk or in love an excuse for that. She is an air stewardess, of course la. Da ke negeri orang barat, da lupe asal usul dan diri sendiri.
This is just from my point of view, any family members/friends of her that is unhappy with what I just shared, then you should find out other's view too ; )
By the way, my elder brother is successfully married to his beloved Ima, or well known as
A' Cute. Congratulations bro!
3:54 AM
Sunday, January 24, 2010
Busy days
I'm gonna update real quick.
In my first pregnancy, I love to walk every where I go.
But in this pregnancy, 500m walk is like hell. I weight 51kg when about to go into labour with my first girl. Now, with my second girl, only 7 months, I weight 54kg. Gosh!!
Imagine yesterday, hubby and Farit accompany me to Joo Chiat Complex, then to Geylang new market, then to Tanjong Katong....then head back to Joo Chiat Complex and then back to Geylang new market. Hubby was tired, his face was like kain burok! All that walking is to find gubahan gift for my elder brother who's getting married, find 2 sets of clothes for me as I can't fit in to my old kebayas, one for solemnisation on saturday, and ceremony on sunday. 2 gowns for Qisya, but we couldn't find... and we bought her a 916 gold necklace and fish pendant. The pendant is small and cute..... Cost $300 but we didn't use her baby bonus that we get yesterday la. Hubby got a private saving for qisya and me. No wonder he's thrifty. I also bought for her a Barney sport shoe, but use hubby's money of course. I'm not working, miskin kate kan....
Then we head to Bedok to look for her gown but to no avail. So we head home.
Qisya was happy with her fish pendant. She wore her new shoe and walk around the whole house. But then...mum told us......
Qisya has a bad nappy rash!!!!!!!!!!! So red, I tremble upon seeing her buttock and genital area. There are many tiny biji. Some are like pimple with pus. So this morning, my elder sister accompany me to the clinic. But the clinic closed since last Friday till Tuesday. Tomorrow, Qisya has an appointment for her last dose of 5 in 1 injection at Tampines Poly,
will bring her to see the doc as well.
My leg hurts from all the walking. Last night before sleep, I ate Chili Crab cup noodle. This morning, woke up at 6am, hungry! Hubby bought for me breakfast at MacDonald before going off to work. I sleep back after eating... then woke up at 11am, feeling hungry again.
Haiz... I think this baby is a big eater just like her daddy. And, she's making my back hurts!
Wanna rest now... Take care, beloved readers...
12:28 AM
Sunday, January 17, 2010
History is History
Specially dedicated to Her...
I've read your post, and was glad you felt happy for us and wished the best for us.
One thing for you to know is that, I never hated you before.
Whatever you did that you thought was immature, its all in the past. It was between you and Apit, even though we quarreled in the phone before ; ) Everyone has their own ups and downs in Love/Friendship/Marriage. You might neglect him before, but now God has given him someone to cherish him. Same goes to everyone else. Good or bad, depends on us. And the way out, is to seek for forgiveness. Forgiveness won't change the past, but will enlarge the future. I never have the feeling of wanting to fight/beat you. But deep down, I always look forward to seeing you. Ask Apit if you want. Like when we go see Tedja, I would ask him. "D, e*** tak de eh? Lau nampak bilang I tau". He once said, "U nih tak abis2 e***, u lesbian eh?" Hehe.. I really looked forward and hope to see you outside. Just wanna see, who's that girl who drive him crazy in love,in the past. We both have moved on in life, Apit, Me and You. So forget the past, aite?
About me, well.... mum ask me to move back. I don't know when will I move back. Because staying back there means going through the same hypocrisy again. But I really looked forward, no place is as comfortable as our own home right? I really can't adapt to living with in laws. I can't adapt to the environment, and not used to having a small bro n sis around. And I HATE KUDE KEPANG!!! hehehe... See how, Hubby refuse to discuss the matter. Maybe he wants more time with his family first. So I guess I have to wait for the buah to jatoh boi!
Hubby is now a Hang Kebun. He has his mini garden outside. He plants Curry, Bird's eye chili
(cili padi), Lime ,and Sireh... And he's good at it. His plants are beautiful and healthy.
Oh yea, another thing I hate about staying at hubby's parent's place, its CREEPY!!! I swear I fucking saw a fucking Banshee (Pontianak) by the hills near the PIE. And Qisya was distubed in her sleep, she woke up, called to me and point to the window. Spooky right? And I'm pregnant somemore. Must be careful. Hope hubby made up his mind quick.
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This is a new post squeezed in. I was afraid that she couldn't read the post earlier on if I were to do a new one.
My elder brother is getting married 3 weeks later. I promised to sponsor him 2 trays of gift for the bride. So I have to go here and there, especially to Joo Chiat Complex to find the accessories like basket, ribbons and stuff. But with my big belly, I couldn't manage all that while bringing Qisya here and there. Sometimes when I carry her, I could feel her leg pressing her lil sister inside. So I talk to hubby, hoping that we could move back to my parent's place asap. At least, I have my mum,uncle and siblings to keep an eye on her. She's close to my family. But hubby told me to be patient. Patient?? I have 3 weeks to finish all that, also to find an outfit I could fit in for that big day. How to be patient when there's not much time left. I swear, I feel like running away from his home. Everytime I went out, not contacting or reply his msgs, his knee would tremble. Feel like trying. Hahaha.. The runaway wife! No lah.. But I don't know how else could I make him understand the fact that I'm not comfortable living there!!
Everytime my eyes stares out the window, he ask, "Ma, pikir ape? Tak muh pikir2 bnyk la"
How can I not think..think of a way to return to my home..?
My head hurts since I woke up this morning. Must be from too much thinking.
Ya Allah, tolong berikan aku petunjuk!
Hubby text me, that we'll go out this sat to find the stuff. Hold on, he off once a week. So he got a total of 2 off days before his off on the big day. So i got 2 days to find the stuff? Eeee....Tak masuk akal btol!
Really stressed up! Last night before we went to sleep, after our romantic routine..he asked me if I loved him.. I say, I loved u, kissed him and say much more than just love.
Should have said No if I knew he was making things hard for me..Wakakakaka....!
Bacin la..
Friends, do add me up in msn. Damn bored!
1:11 AM
I realised that I didnt upload any full pic of me & my big tummy..
